Staff Picks: Love Yourself

Introduction

During a time of year that can be focused on romantic love, No Flying No Tights invites you to show a little love to yourself. Our list month includes stories of self discovery, self acceptance, and learning to love oneself.

All's Faire in Middle School

Victoria Jamieson

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Imogene knows about battles and quests; she grew up helping her parents run their shop at the Florida Renaissance Faire, but she is about to face her toughest quest yet. Going to a public middle school after years of homeschooling. It's also her first year squiring at the Renaissance Faire, which means she'll be learning to in and outs of being a cast member at the faire. Will Imogene have to change who she is to fit in at this new school, or will she learn that being true to yourself and choosing happiness is the best way to find true friendship?

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Fans of Drama by Raina Telgemeier or the author's debut, Roller Girl, will enjoy a quirky tale of learning to find your people in middle school.

Content Notes

Background depictions of adult drinking alcohol

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Becoming Who We Are

Sammy Lisel

Hazel Newlevant

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This is a collection of comics written by trans adults about their childhoods, exploring their dreams and how they achieved them. People of all walks of life, from actors to forest rangers to teachers, talk about their experiences as trans kids with big dreams for the future. And because this is an anthology with stories from many people, there are all kinds of perspectives, and the stories are kept short, making it easy for kids to pick up and read.

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Families with trans or gender exploring children would benefit from reading the stories together, but of course, anyone who wants to know more about what the trans experience can look like would benefit from picking up this book. The comics are kept light and focused on their successes, and it's fun to have different writer/artist teams for each comic, giving each its own look and feel.

Content Notes

The typical for trans stories: gender dysphoria and/or body dysmorphia, homophobia, transphobia

Creator Identities:

Queer |

Nonbinary, Trans |

Main Character Identities:

Queer |

Nonbinary, Trans |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Flip

Ngozi Ukazu

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Chi-Chi is a Black scholarship student at an elite school. She has great friends who also love K-pop and comics, yet Chi-Chi struggles to feel confident and crushes hard on white boys, most recently Flip, a swimmer who has his own set of problems. When Flip turns down her promposal, Chi-Chi wishes she could have him...and soon finds herself waking up in his body.

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With its powerful visuals, hilarious body-swapping hijinks, and a strong emotional tale of self-love and growth at its center, Flip is another excellent title from the creator of Check, Please. Give this to readers looking for stories that explore self-acceptance in a thoughtful, humorous way.

Creator Identities:

Nigerian-American |

Main Character Identities:

Black |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Frizzy

Claribel A. Ortega

Rose Bousamra

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Marlene's mom wants to make sure she's growing up right, so she forces Marlene to get her hair straightened every week, to fix it and make it good hair. This is a part of her life she hates: the salon, the straightening, her mom's constant lectures about growing up and looking a certain way. She finds solace with her tía Ruby and her best friend Camila, but then a dreaded day comes: her perfect cousin's quinceñera, where all of Marlene's flaws will be perfectly contrasted to her cousin's perfection. Together with Tía Ruby and Camila, Marlene finds the strength to embrace her hair and who she is, not what her mom wants her to be.

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This is the book for all the kids who hate their curly hair, fight with how they look compared to what's expected, or struggle to get their parents to understand what they want. It's sweet, funny, and ultimately, even the mom character is a well-rounded person, not just the villain of the story. It really portrays how messy and beautiful family and growing up can be.

Creator Identities:

Dominican-American |

Queer |

Nonbinary |

Main Character Identities:

Dominican-American |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Halfway There: A Graphic Memoir of Self-Discovery

Christine Mari

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Christine struggles to accept herself because of people’s treatment of her multiracial identity. With fond childhood memories of Japan, she decides to return to make herself feel whole again. Once in Japan, Christine finds that the same feelings and experiences have followed her, and she sinks into depression.

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With powerful visuals that skillfully capture both Christine’s life in Japan and emotional turmoil, Halfway There is a powerful, touching story of a woman wrestling with self-acceptance and discovery. Readers looking for stories that explore the impact of identity on mental health and self-acceptance will want to pick this one up.

Content Notes

Discussion of depression and self-harm

Creator Identities:

Japanese-American, Multiracial |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese-American, Multiracial |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up With Me

Mariko Tamaki

Rosemary Valero-O’Connell

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The greatest act of self-love is leaving a relationship that no longer serves you. Frederica "Freddy", learns that the hard way during the course of her on again off again relationship with cool girl Laura Dean. The more Freddy tries to hold on to Laura Dean, the more it seems that other important things in her life, like her friends, are slipping away. Will Freddy find the courage to break this cycle with Laura Dean for good so that she can embrace the people in her life who truly care about her?

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Fans of stories that explore the ups and downs of young queer romance, like Bloom by Kevin Panetta or The Girl from the Sea, will enjoy this bittersweet story.

Content Notes

Unhealthy relationships, teen pregnancy, abortion

Creator Identities:

Japanese-Canadian |

Queer |

Jewish |

Main Character Identities:

Assumed East Asian |

Lesbian, Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Lunar New Year Love Story

Gene Luen Yang

LeUyen Pham

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Valentina, named after the holiday all about love, has just about written off the possibility of love for herself. Her dad lost the love of his life, and it seems like her whole family may be cursed to spend their lives alone. She used to love Valentine's Day, carefully making valentines for her classmates and imagining Cupid himself looking over her shoulder as she worked. But when her inner cupid becomes a dark specter that gives her an ultimatum, find love by the new year or close off your heart to love forever, she has to figure out if she even believes true love is possible. Will Valentina find it in herself to open herself up to love?

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Fans of Heartstopper and All the Boys I've Loved Before will enjoy this introspective and deeply personal story about learning to accept love into your life.

Content Notes

Discussion of the death of a parent, abandonment/absent parent

Creator Identities:

Chinese-American, Vietnamese American |

Main Character Identities:

Korean-American, Vietnamese American |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Masks

Margaret Rae

Beck Kubrick

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Poe's horns and green skin aren't a costume; they're just part of who she is, and because of them, the hunters took her parents from her. Now she's trying to scrape by with two other monstrous kids, Rice and Shelley, but the hunters make it hard to exist. Finally, the three of them get desperate enough to try and find this supposed haven for monsters that's deep in the city and end up learning a lot about themselves, humans, and the hunters.

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The monster analogy makes the story fun and slightly fantastical, so kids who prefer a story with at least a little of the fantastic will be more interested in picking this one up. It can easily be used in a classroom setting to discuss issues of racism and othering, as well as the violence that people being othered face, and what it can feel like in the day-to-day for them. It also discusses what leads people to be on the other side of that, why they might start pushing some people out and treating them differently, in a very digestible way for kids.

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Super Late Bloomer: My Early Days in Transition

Julia Kaye

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In this diary-style collection of short comics, we follow Julia through the ups and downs of her early gender transition. And while there are many moments of pain, confusion, and struggle, there are also in equal measure moments of self-love, excitement, and gender joy.

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Fans looking for a personal narrative exploring gender identity, like Fine by Rhea Ewing, or a webcomic collection that uses humor to look at some of the tougher parts of life, like Sarah's Scribbles, will find something to love here.

Content Notes

Transphobia

Creator Identities:

Trans |

Main Character Identities:

Trans |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Weirdo

Tony Weaver, Jr

Jes & Cin Wibowo

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Tony loves comics, anime, and writing, but at his elite school, they make him a target. This takes Tony to a dark place until he changes schools. When trustees threaten to close his new school, Tony is going to have to make use of his weirdo ways to save the day.

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Based on the writer’s own struggles, Weirdo is an uplifting tale of learning to love yourself and use your gifts to make a difference. Readers who found solace in Jerry Craft’s New Kid series will find similar themes of creativity and determination in Weirdo. Weirdo is also an important read for kids struggling with their mental health and self-love.

Content Notes

Discussion of suicide; scene where the character gets choked

Creator Identities:

Black, Chinese, Indonesian |

Main Character Identities:

Black |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Staff Picks Updates: Romance

Introduction

Our team has put together a list of comics and manga to celebrate the season of love. So whether you’re a single pringle this valentine’s day or spending it with your sweetie, please enjoy our list featuring stories all about that crazy little thing called love.

A Sign of Affection

suu Morishita

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Yuki is a college student who is fairly shy. She prefers to spend her time with her few friends. One day, while hanging out with one, she meets a charismatic guy who, despite knowing several languages and traveling for fun, knows no sign language. That's important since Yuki has congenital hearing loss. While she can read lips, it's, of course, easier to talk in a shared language. Thus begins a relationship founded on learning and teaching languages and the importance of communication.

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Readers who enjoy an unexpected pairing in manga like In the Clear Moonlit Dusk, My Love Mix-Up, or Kimi No Todoke: From Me to You will likely enjoy this one. And because this series is so thoughtfully researched and designed, readers looking for more disability representation, especially for main characters, will appreciate A Sign of Affection.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:
Japanese |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Cheer Up! Love and Pompoms

Crystal Frasier

Val Wise

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Annie is the antisocial loner who has top grades and a prickly, rebellious personality; Bebe is a trans girl who feels she has to please everyone. When Annie joins the cheerleading team to round out her college applications, she and Bebe rekindle their previous friendship, and soon it becomes something more.

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Fans of the coming-of-age and sports elements of Check Please and readers looking for a light, fun teen romance

Content Notes

Transphobia in sports

Creator Identities:

Gender Nonconforming, Intersex, Trans |

Main Character Identities:
Lesbian, Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Kiss Number 8

Colleen AF Venable

Ellen T Crenshaw

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Amanda has kissed many frogs trying to find her prince, but her eighth kiss shows her that she might be interested in princes and princesses, but it also may break her friend group apart. On top of dealing with keeping her interest in girls a secret, she receives a mysterious letter in the mail promising her an inheritance from her paternal grandfather who she’s never met. As Amanda tries to discover more about this relative, she discovers that she may not be the only person in her family that her parents need to learn to accept.

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Anyone who is looking for a sign that it indeed does get better. Young adults who have people in their lives (family, friends, school) who are not accepting of their identity at first will feel seen by this story and given hope that they will find their people someday.

Content Notes

Homophobia, Transphobia

Creator Identities:

Gender Nonconforming |

Main Character Identities:
Bisexual |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Lunar New Year Love Story

Gene Luen Yang

LeUyen Pham

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Valentina’s family has never been lucky in love, and, with all the trouble in her life, Val is afraid she’s destined to follow in their footsteps. She makes a deal with St. Valentine, an apparition of her namesake: if she doesn’t find love within a year, he will take away her heart. When she meets two lion dancers, Val thinks she may have a chance to break the cycle. With lovely illustrations thoughtfully colored to capture Val’s highs and lows as she navigates the nature of love, this is a tender story of love and connection you don’t want to miss.

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Readers who enjoy thoughtful romances will want to pick up Lunar New Year Love Story. Additionally, readers who have enjoyed Gene Luen Yang’s previous work will appreciate the presence of the same sensitive and thoughtful writing that permeates his other stories.

Creator Identities:

Chinese-American, Vietnamese American |

Main Character Identities:
Chinese-American, Korean-American, Vietnamese American |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

My Love Story with Yamada-Kun at lv999

Mashiro

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Akane was going to delete the game she and her ex used to play together, but instead, she started using it to deal with her feelings by killing low-level monsters. Then she meets a reclusive player who seems super elite if incredibly awkward, that's a member of her guild. Then, at an in-person event for the game, she sees her ex and, for some reason, decides to say this recluse, who happens to be there too, is her boyfriend. Now she's starting to get feelings for him, and he seems to only care about the game.

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Perfect for readers who like a romance story that focuses on people with hobbies that include online gaming and those who enjoy manga like Wotakoi: Love is Hard for Otaku or My Dress-Up Darling. The romance builds slowly, with lots of room to breathe and moments of daily life, so it may not be as interesting for those who want fast-paced, intense romance.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:
Japanese |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Navigating With You

Jeremy Whitley

Cassio Ribeiro

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Neesha Sparks, activist, and seamstress extraordinaire, is determined to approach her new school with caution; she is leery about how the school will treat her because of her blackness and cerebral palsy. At first glance, the other new girl, Gabby, doesn’t seem to be friend material, but they soon connect and discover they were once obsessed with the same manga series but never finished it. The girls decide to start a book club to finish the series. As they continue their quest, their relationship deepens into something more.

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Navigating with You’s strong character dynamics and book-focused premise will appeal to fans of character-driven romance such as Heartstopper and readers looking for a sweet, book-focused romance. The story also includes strong disability representation, showing both characters navigating their lives and helping each other without letting the disability take over.

Content Notes

Ableism; sexism; PTSD episode

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Roaming

Mariko Tamaki

Jillian Tamaki

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It is the Spring Break of 2009, and Canadian college freshmen Dani and Zoe are meeting up for the first time since graduating high school by going to New York, joined by Zoe's classmate Fiona, who's familiar with the area. And so begins a beautiful and messy story of love between people, both platonic and romantic, love for life and cities, the excitement of new experiences, and embracing the mess of it all.

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As a time capsule of the 00s, Roaming will appeal to Millennial readers who remember their youths in those times. Since that period has become popular again, some older teen readers might also enjoy it. Readers who like messy stories about young adults like Girl Juice or Punk Rock Karaoke might also want to pick this one up.

Creator Identities:

Japanese-Canadian |

Lesbian |

Main Character Identities:
Canadian |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Skip and Loafer

Misaki Takamatsu

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Mitsumi is a small-town girl with big dreams that include becoming mayor of her hometown someday. But to do that, she has to start with going to high school in the big city. Things quickly go awry the morning of the entrance ceremony, but a boy with fluffy blond hair helps her make it to school relatively on time. He turns out to be Sosuke, a guy with a reputation for skipping class and being charming with girls. Mitsumi has much to learn about life in Tokyo, so Sosuke and her new friends do their best to teach her.

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The lighthearted mood of Skip and Loafer means it'll be a big hit with fans of series like Honey Lemon Soda and Insomniacs After School. Because romance builds slowly, the series can be a great suggestion for readers who want to try out more romantic stories but aren't into the standard romance or don't want the story to focus heavily on romance.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:
Japanese |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Something New: Tales of a Makeshift Bride

Lucy Knisley

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First comes love, then comes marriage, and that means a wedding. In this funny and warm graphic memoir, Knisley takes us along for the ride as she plans a sweet DIY barn wedding as well as navigating her feeling about wedding traditions and their patriarchal and heteronormative origins.

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For anyone who felt like planning their wedding was getting thrown into the deep end without being able to swim, this book is for you.

Creator Identities:

Bisexual |

Main Character Identities:
Bisexual |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Space Story

Fiona Ostby

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As humans evacuate to a space station, Hannah waits for her wife Leah and child Bird, whom she had to leave behind. Meanwhile, on an increasingly dangerous Earth, Leah and Bird rush to build a rocket ship. As the departure window closes, will Hannah and her family be reunited?

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With a simple and effective palette, Ostby weaves Hannah and Leah’s courtship with the current agonizing circumstances into a touching story of love, fear, and hope. Readers who like quieter science-fiction and romance-such as Tillie Walden’s On a Sunbeam-will want to pick up Space Story. With its emphasis on striving forward in the face of difficult circumstances, this will be a comforting read to readers looking for hope and resilience.

Content Notes

Some nudity but makes sense in context

Creator Identities:

Main Character Identities:
Lesbian |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Stage Dreams

Melanie Gillman

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When outlaw Flor kidnaps Grace, the two women soon find themselves in an unexpected partnership. Flor is looking for her last big take; Grace is avoiding enlistment and dreaming of the stage. When they discover a group of Confederate loyalists are throwing a party, they decide to sneak in to steal information that will help the Union.

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With a delightful cast of characters and charming art, readers looking for a romantic, playful adventure will want to pick up Stage Dreams.

Content Notes

Some blood and violence

Creator Identities:

Nonbinary |

Main Character Identities:
Trans |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

The Prince and the Dressmaker

Jen Wang

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Prince Sebastian seems like any other royal; he has servants, lives in a palace, and his parent throws elaborate balls to try and find him a bride. What people don't see is that he lives a secret second life, where he sneaks out of the castle at night as the stunning Lady Crystallia. After seeing a young seamstress's avant-garde dress at a ball, he knows he needs her to make dresses for him. Will Sebastian find the courage to be his true self? And will these two young people find a bond stronger than the client and dressmaker along the way?

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Fans of a gentle friends-to-lovers story will enjoy this book with the takeaway of not being afraid to follow your dreams.

Creator Identities:

Taiwanese-American |

Main Character Identities:
Gender Nonconforming |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo