Boys Love, Girls Love: A Starter Pack

Introduction

Interest in BL (boys love) & yuri/GL (girls love) is on the rise, especially as publishers start bringing more over to the US. So what is it? Basically, it’s manga featuring same gender romantic and/or sexual relationships. There’s a long and complex history to both, so if you’re interested in learning more there’s books out there on the topic. 

 

When it comes to choosing what to put on library shelves, the things you’re probably already doing with other manga like checking reputable review sites and looking at what other libraries collect still work here too. Hopefully this list can serve as a starting point, but there’s so many great series we didn’t have room to stuff in here.

Doughnuts Under a Crescent Moon

Shio Usui

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Hinako says she wants a boyfriend to fit in with her coworkers, but doesn't feel happy with her work or life in general. In contrast, her coworker Asahi focuses on her work and her younger sister and doesn’t think she’ll ever fall in love. When Hinako crumbles under the pressure, Asahi offers her a doughnut and kindness. Soon, Hinako and Asahi find themselves spending time together and valuing each other more and more. But are they just friends or more than friends?

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With its focus on the characters' exploration of love, Doughnuts Under a Crescent Moon is a tender read, ideal for readers seeking stories about characters navigating societal expectations to find happiness. While neither character is identified as asexual, ace-spec readers will likely find much to enjoy here. Readers who liked the gentle romance of She Loves to Cook, and She Loves to Eat will want to check out this series as well.

Content Notes

Internalized homophobia and struggles with amatonormativity; implied family death and familial discord

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Even Though We're Adults

Takako Shimura

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Ayano is a single elementary school teacher in her 30s, and one night, she meets the intriguing woman Akari at a bar, where they almost kiss. One thing leads to another, and the two of them begin to explore the idea of some kind of relationship. Then, Ayano discovers that not only is Akari not single, but she's actually married to a man and wants them all to meet. Adulthood truly is complicated. What makes this manga fantastic and a little unusual is that the main characters are both in their 30s and dealing with the usual adult life problems, whereas many yuri stories focus on teens.

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Readers who gravitate towards stories filled with drama but prefer it to be more grounded will likely enjoy this one. Similarly, if they tried Run Away With Me Girl and wanted something a little more toned down, definitely give Even Though We're Adults a try. Because the story focuses on adults, it skirts many of the tropes of yuri in many ways, making it a good choice for readers new to yuri who want to give it a try. It's also refreshing to see adults navigating identities, and it can really resonate with some readers.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Lesbian |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

I Hear the Sunspot

Yuki Fumino

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Kohei desperately wants to connect, but his hearing loss impacts his social interactions. Taichi is a loud, ravenous guy who offers to be Kohei’s notetaker in exchange for free lunches. As they grow closer, their relationship begins to mean a great deal to Kohei.

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A sweet story about navigating connection, I Hear the Sunspot will especially appeal to readers who are in the mood for a gentle romance.

Content Notes

Ableism

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Kase-San And...

Hiromi Takashima

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Kase is the cool and popular track star of the school, while Yamada is the quiet and clumsy one in the background watering the school's flower gardens. So when Kase catches Yamada's eye, Yamada assumes this could go nowhere. Kase proves her wrong, and over the remaining years of high school, their relationship continues to flourish. Then college comes, and now they have a whole new set of problems to navigate, such as dorms, curfews, and living far away from each other. This series falls into several yuri tropes, including the tall, dark-haired, cool girl paired with the more feminine, shorter, blond girl, and the denial of attraction because, oh no, we're both girls, though it doesn't do that one too badly.

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This series is sweet, funny, and shows a couple as they transition from crushes to relationships, from high school to college. It's a fantastic pick for readers new to yuri, as it acknowledges its tropes but isn't bound by them, and slowly shows readers that these characters have depth. It is a slow-burning slice-of-life story, so readers seeking a faster pace may become frustrated by its gentle and gradual progression.

Content Notes

Some partial nudity, discussion of sex

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Queer |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Old-Fashioned Cupcake

Sagan Sagan

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39-year-old Nozue's life is all routine - work, sleep, repeat - and he's decided it's enough. But his coworker Togawa, ten years his junior, decides that won't do, and starts shaking up Nozue's routine. Over time, Nozue realizes just how sad he'd let his life become and how special Togawa is to him. It turns out, those feelings are mutual. However, whether this sweet relationship will sour over time due to the realities of work and their age difference remains to be seen. May-December romances are a kind of subset within BL (much like in romance novels), and this short series does it well. This series also falls slightly into the trope of the relationship being kept secret, but it is resolved in a way that is very modern and healthier than many other BL series.

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Readers who enjoy slice-of-life romances will likely enjoy this one, though it does have sex scenes in it, so those new to BL may be a bit surprised, especially in comparison to many yuri series. There are also a surprising number of BL series that are slice-of-life stories centered around food, so if a reader enjoys series like What Did You Eat Yesterday or Confessions of a Shy Baker, they'll likely enjoy this one too.

Content Notes

Censored sex scenes, censored nudity, discussions of homophobia

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Gay |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Our Dining Table

Mita Ori

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Salaryman Yutaka lives a lonely and lackluster life until he runs into Tane and his big brother Minoru while eating lunch outside his job. Yukata shares his onigiri with Tane and loves how he makes it, so he goes over to their house to show them how he makes it. Minoru learns that cooking requires a little more care and finesse than his all-boys household is used to, and Yukata learns how to come out of his shell and be comfortable sharing his time (and meals) with people.

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Fans of Heartstopper or Bloom will love this queer romance, centered around cooking.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Gay |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Our Not So Lonely Planet Travel Guide

Mone Sorai

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After Asahi has a health scare and needs surgery, with only his close friend Mitsuki by his side to support him, Mitsuki proposes that they travel around the world together. If they are still dating at the end of the trip, they should consider getting married. While always practical, Asahi agrees, he thinks their trip is more likely to end with him being alone than the two of them being together forever. This series follows their travels around the world and their growing closeness. It also explores both of their anxiety about being accepted as a gay couple by both their loved ones and the greater society.

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Part travel guide and part slow-burning romance between 2 young men, this title will satisfy readers' wanderlust and their desire for realistic queer romance.

Content Notes

Discussions of Homophobia, alluding to sexual situations

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Italian, Japanese |

Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Restart After Coming Back Home

Cocomi

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After getting fired from his job in Tokyo, Mitsuomi returns to his hometown in disgrace. He meets Yamato, a cheerful young man who already seems better integrated into the town than Mitsuomi ever was. Although the two are opposites, they nevertheless find themselves growing ever closer.

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With its story that balances a tender dynamic with coming-of-age themes, teen and adult readers who like a good grumpy/sunshine romance will want to pick up Restart After Coming Back Home. Restart After Coming Back Home has a satisfying conclusion, yet readers who enjoy this one will be happy to know that there is a follow-up called Restart After Growing Hungry.

Content Notes

Internalized homophobia

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Sasaki and Miyano

Shou Harusuno

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Great for folks new to the BL genre, Sasaki and Miyano is a cute romance between the meek and studious Yoshikazu Miyano and his more brash, delinquent upperclassman Shumei Sasaki. Miyano, despite having been primarily attracted to girls, is a fan of boys' love comics (comics mainly created by straight women for straight women). His upperclassman, Sasaki, catches him reading a volume at school one day and sees an opportunity to get closer to Miyano over a shared interest. Their friendship evolves into romance over the course of the series, with Miyano highlighting which real-life scenarios also mirror popular BL tropes.

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Newcomers to the BL genre, teens

Content Notes

Sasaki and Miyano are very cute and sweet; it does not contain explicit content. And since Miyano likes to compare everything that happens in his relationship to BL tropes he's seen in comics, it can serve as a sort of guide to popular writing clichés and scenarios commonly associated with the genre.

Recommended by

Al Marcellus

She Loves to Cook, and She Loves to Eat

Sakaomi Yuzaki

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Yuki Nomoto, a woman living alone in Tokyo, is passionate about cooking. Although she has an engaged following on her food-centric social media account, she laments that her lack of friends is keeping her from cooking party-sized portions. After a bad day at work, Nomoto cooks up a storm, but with her small appetite, she isn't sure how to eat it all up before the food goes bad. She remembers an elevator ride with her neighbor from two doors down, Totoko Kasuga, and the bags of food she was carrying all for herself. Notomo takes the initiative, and she and Kasuga begin to share meals, forming a close bond. Notomo eventually begins to develop feelings for her hard-to-read, though very kind, neighbor. What other feelings and foods will arise in this new relationship?
In addition to a lesbian love story (with perhaps some hints at an ace/arospec protagonist), this series also contains numerous cultural and social insights into Japan. Enjoy the slow bloom of affection between these two women as they navigate their feelings towards each other and their livelihoods. Slice-of-life stories about adults are relatively rare, and I wanted to bring this to the attention of potential readers.

Appeals to

Adults, older teens

Content Notes

Although I feel that this series is very appropriate for teens (there is nothing explicit), the story seems to have been written to appeal to adults who lack the social freedom for self-expression that kids typically have. Self-reflection is conducted independently of pop culture and social norms; these women are grown and working adults, and the story is mainly free of yuri tropes that might appeal to younger readers.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Lesbian |

Recommended by

Al(lison) Dohhr

The Guy She Was Interested in Wasn't a Guy at All

Sumiko Arai

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Mitsuki Koga is a high school girl with an interest in dad rock (okay, okay...CLASSIC ROCK). She helps her uncle part-time in his record store, where she does her best to keep anonymous (note: high school is compulsory in Japan, and most schools restrict their students from working while still enrolled). She dresses androgynously, covers her face, and keeps quiet. Her classmate, Aya Oosawa, enticed by the music within the store, finds herself attracted to this shy shopkeeper. The series revolves around Mitsuki trying to keep her real identity as Aya's classmate a secret, while doing her best to maintain a friendship with her. They have a lot to learn about each other!

Appeals to

Teen girls

Content Notes

No explicit content - it's all hand-holding and blushing faces!

Recommended by

Al Marcellus

Whisper Me A Love Song

Eku Takeshima

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Having an all-girl band play at your high school entrance ceremony would be pretty memorable on its own, but for Himari Kino, she also fell in love at first sight. After watching 3rd year Yori Asanagi as the lead singer of a band called SSgirls, she couldn't stop thinking about her. That means she's her biggest fan, right? The same day, she runs into Yori in the hall and tells her that she "fell in love at first sight" with her. Yori is left wondering if she really means it or is just star-struck. Meanwhile, Yori can't stop thinking about Himari either, her cute smile, her bubbly energy. Has lightning struck twice for these two teenagers, and do they feel the same way about each other, or is it just friendship for one of them and a hopeless crush for the other?

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Readers who love the "grumpy/sunshine" trope will enjoy the dynamic between cool, older Yori and bubbly, naive Himari.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Lesbian, Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Staff Picks: Queer Manga

Introduction

We love our queer comics and graphic novels here at No Flying No Tights, but this pride month we want to specifically focus on queer manga. Below is a curated list of some of our favorite manga with queer characters or plot lines.

At 30, I Realized I Had No Gender

Shou Arai

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At thirty, Shou Arai realized he didn’t have a gender; he found himself navigating living and aging as a queer person in Japanese society. This collection of comics explores these themes, mixing his own experiences with questions from readers.

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Readers looking for stories about navigating presentation while aging as an older queer person will want to pick this up.

Content Notes

Nudity; frank discussion of sex

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Intersex |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Intersex |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Blue Flag

Kaito

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Taichi Ichinose is just trying to get through his third year of high school as uneventfully as possible, but he ends up in the same class as shy and klutzzy Futaba Kuze. She admits to him that she has a crush on star athlete Toma Mita, with whom Taichi was friendly with in elementary school. She asks for his help in winning over Toma, and even though he's pretty sure she doesn't stand a chance, he helps her. The more they hang out trying to get Toma to notice her, the more Taichi starts to see her in a different light. Meanwhile, Toma has a secret crush on his oldest friend, Taichi, and the only person in their school who seems to have figured it out is Futaba's best friend, because she is in the same situation as Futaba.

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Fans of slice-of-life series with high levels of interpersonal and romantic drama will devour this series.

Content Notes

Mild sexual themes.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Gay, Lesbian, Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Confessions of a Shy Baker

Masaomi Ito

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One day at Toshimitsu's real estate company, his assistant suggests advertising the company as LGBTQ+ friendly. This puts Toshi in a tight spot because he's gay, but not out at work. In the evenings, he discusses the dilemma with his boyfriend, Gonta, while they enjoy Toshi's homemade treats, trying to decide how to navigate celebrating their identity while maintaining safety.

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In many ways, this series is like a more lighthearted version of What Did You Eat Yesterday? with a couple much earlier in their relationship. There's also the appeal of seeing a gay couple in a slice of life series, much like Our Not-So-Lonely Planet Travel Guide. While the series does discuss being out or outed, the overall mood is one of humorous or quiet moments in their lives.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Gay |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Goodbye, My Rose Garden

Dr. Pepperco

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Set in 1900s England, Hanako travels from Japan to meet her favorite author, but the publisher has been given explicit instructions to keep the author's whereabouts private. At this publishing house, she meets the upper-class Lady Alice, who hires her on the spot to be her maid, to help her learn how to navigate English culture. Soon after Hanako arrives at Lady Alice's home, she discovers that rumors are circulating through high society, suggesting that Lady Alice prefers the company of women over men. With Lady Alice's quick attachment to Hanako not only as a maid but also as a companion, she must decide whether to do the noble thing for her family and marry a wealthy man, or give in to her true feelings, including her growing affection for Hanako.

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Both girls' love enthusiasts and historical fiction lovers will find something to love in this short manga series.

Content Notes

Time period typical homophobia and xenophobia, Minor mentions of suicide, and significant mentions of planning one's death.

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Lesbian, Queer |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

I Want to Be a Wall

Honami Shirono

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Yuriko is an asexual woman who loves boys' love stories, but doesn’t fall in love. Gakurouta is a closeted gay man who has an unrequited crush on his childhood friend. During a matchmaker meeting, each finds an empathetic listener in the other, and they eventually decide to get married. Can these two virtual strangers form a meaningful relationship despite the pressures from society and their families?

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With a sweet, platonic relationship at its center and a tender, and at times, intense plot, I Want to Be a Wall is an excellent exploration of what a relationship and marriage mean, especially for those whose identities are not accepted. Older teen and adult readers seeking stories about platonic or atypical relationships should pick up I Want to Be A Wall.

Content Notes

Some violence; anti-LGBTQ attitudes both directed at characters and internalized; alcohol consumption; and some heavy mental health moments

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Asexual, Gay |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe

Is Love the Answer?

Uta Isaki

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Though many new experiences come with starting college, for Chika, one of those is not romance. At this point, she's pretty sure there's something wrong with her, as it's just never worked out or felt right for her. Then she learns the terms aromantic and asexual from new acquaintances, and finally, it feels like the puzzle pieces slide into place. Although the manga concludes with Chika still on her journey of self-discovery, the reader can see her transition from lost to more confident throughout the volume.

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Although this manga lacks magical elements, it shares a similar mood with Our Dreams at Dusk, and readers of I Want to Be a Wall will appreciate another manga featuring asexual representation. The fact that Chika is a young adult sorting out life with relative strangers and figuring out relationships in general makes for a generally relatable read.

Content Notes

Attempted sexual assault

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Asexual |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

Love Me For Who I Am

Kata Konayama

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Mogumo, who wears a girls' uniform and keeps their hair in pigtails, doesn't have many friends and is nervous about making them, so when Tetsu suggests they try working at a café called Question!, Mogumo isn't sure it'll work out but decides to give it a try. What Mogumo finds through their work at Question! is a community of friends across the gender spectrum, along with the support they need to address issues at home related to their identity.

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Readers of series like To Strip the Flesh or Boys Run the Riot, who were hoping for more representation of people whose gender falls somewhere between the binary, and a cast of mostly individuals still figuring it all out, will appreciate this series. There are some complex topics here, but they're handled well, especially considering how few manga cover this ground.

Content Notes

Parental physical and mental abuse of children, depictions of self harm, transphobia

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Nonbinary |

Recommended by

Shannan Prukop

The Moon on a Rainy Night

Kuzushiro

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Saki Kindaichi was walking to her piano lesson when she bumped into a girl with long black hair on the street. This girl helps her put herself back together, even offering her a band-aid for her cut hand, and then leaves without saying a word. The next day, she enters her high school class for the first day of school, and the girl from the night before is seated next to her. She discovers that her name is Kanon Oikawa and that she's hard of hearing. Their teacher is worried about Kanon needing extra support because of her disability, but Kanon wants everyone to leave her alone. Despite Kanon making it clear she doesn't want to make friends, Saki still tries to make her feel included. Will Kanon continue to push Saki away, or learn that making new friends might not be so bad?

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Readers who love a sapphic romance that begins slowly, rooted in deep friendship, will enjoy this series.

Content Notes

Ableism

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Lesbian, Queer |

Hearing loss |

Recommended by

Tayla Cardillo

Why I Adopted My Husband

Yuta Yagi

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There is no gay marriage in Japan, so Yuta Yagi and his partner Kyota decide that Kyota should adopt Yagi. Drawn in adorable chibi style, Why I Adopted my Husband tells their relationship’s story, the decision, and the adoption process.

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Readers seeking stories about LGBTQ individuals in other countries will find "Why I Adopted My Husband" an engaging read. Additionally, Yagi and Kyota’s love for each other is clear as day, making this enjoyable for a reader looking for a sweet queer love story.

Content Notes

Brief discussions and portrayal of smoking and drinking; outing

Creator Identities:

Japanese |

Gay |

Main Character Identities:

Japanese |

Gay |

Recommended by

Megan Rupe